Networking Dating Tips 2

Earlier this year I wrote about my friend Hitch tips to get a great come out to a first date. I had a lot of comments about it and now I like to share Carrie Tips. She had 2 bad dates with a guy, and she gave him a third and last opportunity.

Theme 1: If you want to date a girl, do not use adjectives such as: "Vanilla", "Square", "Vain". She could behave as cold and distant she likes, and if you want her, you should make an effort to convince to date you, if you use this words describing her, probably she will apply them and won't go out with you.

Theme 2: Do not speak about the personal "days" of the woman, if your mother, colleagues, neighbor or any other woman share with you this information, you shouldn't repeat it with your girl. She will go to her friends and then share your conversation, of course you don't want to give her and her friends this impression.

Theme 3: You invited her out, and she as a complete lady, will dress up and use high heels, consider this condition and do not make her walk around a parking lot searching for your car. The gentlemen way should be to ask her wait for you at the door and go for the car and pick her up where you left her.

Theme 4: You invited her to dine, movies, bowls or any other place, for sure you will get some food and she will accept it, and then probably she will not finish everything. Do not take out her meal: popcorn, hot dog, desert, or whatever she didn't finish. Eventually she will go back to the food and you don't want to be known as the guy that finished her food.

Theme 5: If you went out, there is a possibility to go to the restroom. Do not let her waiting for you more than 30 minutes. She will be out of the toilet in no more than 15, and you have to consider that women services always have a waiting line.

Theme 6: If you went to a concert, and waiting to start, offer yourself to get some water or food, do not wait until she offers, but if it happens, and she offer to get the water, do not let her go and buy the food.

Theme 7: Remember this tips are for you to get a third date, so you have been pressing a little to get her say yes. So you convince her and at some point she offers to pay the bill, do not allow her, remember that you have some trouble to go out with her, you have to make her feel special.

Theme 8: Do not force the physical contact, if the things go well eventually you may approach her. But if she do not want, you have to read the signs, if you take her hand, she will lose up, if you hug her she will get apart.

Theme 9: If you invite her to a trip, do not ask her to pay for the plane ticket. My friend received the following message: "Carrie, lets go to the beach this weekend, can you pay for the tickets?" It was the second date and she will not accept the deal.

Theme 10: If you are asking her out for an event that starts before 10:00pm, invite her to a dinner after, so you may avoid eating her popcorn at the middle of the movie.

Of course you have to notice first if there is some chemistry between you and may skip some of this tips, but if things are not working maybe you are doing some of this mistakes and my recommendation is that you work on them to get the fourth date.

Carrie had her third date, but the gentlemen did 8 of the past 10 bad things, she won't go out with him again.