Agreement Networking

The last week a friend of mine, publish a picture on one of my mega chats, half an hour later, he write down: "Thanks for giving comments" and left the chat. Nobody made a comment until then, and the next messages were of surprise because we didn't expect that he leave the chat.

When people have some expectations of what other people should do, the conflicts begin, so I share some recommendations that I personally follow on how not to involve the own expectations with other people feelings and avoid conflicts.

First: Do not make assumptions: Don't give anything for granted, if you have doubts, ask. When we make assumptions, we create huge stories that commonly have no basis. It's better that you clarify the things with your friends, and if you don't have the opportunity to  make it, then learn to think that there should be something that hasn't have anything to do with you. You will realize that you have a thankful life.

Second: Make a commitment with your own words: Be coherent about what you thin and what you say, this make you respectable to the other's eyes. If you make a promise, accomplish it as soon as possible, and if for some reason you couldn't do it, talk to the person you made the commitment and organize a new moment to do it.

Third: Do your best always: Push yourself and do it with your own style, the people will be glad to know that you always do your best. Do it with humor and enjoy what you do, this transfers to the other people and they will invite you to participate in more activities.

Fourth: Do not take nothing personal: In the way the people want to hurt you, they hurt themselves, the problem is with them not you.

Remember that doing Networking requires a little effort from yourself, empathy with your friends and understand that not everything turn around yourself, but around your friends. In the way you practice this recommendations you will see that your personal relations grow.